ozarque ([info]ozarque) wrote,
@ 2007-11-30 08:24:00
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Personal note; holiday entanglement...
I am entangled in the holidays today and tomorrow -- and "entangled" is truly the right word. Last night the lights went up on the front of our underground house .... I love those lights, and am always tempted to leave them up all year round, but have so far managed to resist the temptation. Today the Christmas tree will be assembled -- as opposed to being cut down (or dug up) and hauled back to the house in the traditional fashion -- and will have its lights added, and tomorrow I will be trimming it. All of this ordinarily gets done on December 1st, but this year George decided to start early and never mind tradition, and our front porch is now piled with boxes of tree-parts and tree-lights and ornaments and centerpiece-makings and celebration-makings, and more, all of which has to be put in order. Plus, there is cleaning to do -- I can't in good conscience trim a Christmas tree that's standing in a room full of dust and detritus -- and there's laundry to do and baking to do, and a calendar to do.

I am going to be very tired by the end of today, and very tired again by the end of tomorrow, but I am also going to be very happy. I do understand why a real Christmas tree is in all but one way entirely superior to an artificial one; I really do. That one exception is the way an artificial Christmas tree allows me to indulge myself shamelessly and revel in Christmas decorations for the entire month of December every year. Some people have weaknesses like over-gambling and over-eating and over-drinking and over-spending; my weakness [well, one of many!] is over-Christmasing. It's a good thing there's a cultural limit on the span of Christmas, because I have no self-discipline about it whatsoever.

I have all my Christmas gifts done -- not wrapped yet, but all either actually finished (that's the handmade ones) or purchased, or at least ordered and an order confirmation in hand. I have all but three of my Christmas cards signed and in their envelopes and addressed. I plan to make the Christmas fruitcake very shortly. [Recipe at http://ozarque.livejournal.com/180281.html .] I've been trying to stay far ahead of schedule on my holiday tasks this year because I expect to have to spend a lot of December rewriting The Gentle Art of Verbal Self-Defense -- contracts are now being drawn up, fa-la-la-la-la! -- and I knew that without a head start I'd find myself in deep and swirling water by mid-month. I don't intend to let that happen, because it would interfere with my over-Christmasing; hence the head start.

What I haven't done yet is write a new Christmas poem, although I have one perking and hope to be able to post it soon; I'm therefore going to re-post here the one I posted last year, in case some of you haven't seen it [which would be a reasonable assumption], plus re-posting one of my filk carols from the past on precisely the same basis. Here they both are, with my best wishes.


Holiday Blessing

To all you shepherds abiding in your fields,
watching over your flocks by night, and also by day
(whether your field be grass or anthropology,
oats or olives or medieval economics), I say:
May your flocks all thrive;
may your grass grow lush and green;
may joy follow you amiably and radiantly from place to place;
and may all your hypotheses be plausible.
Amen.



Blessing Song
[Tune -- "As Shepherds Watched Their Flocks by Night"]

From every land grim tidings come, and bid us all beware;
but I would ask you for this day to lay aside despair,
to lay aside despair.

I saw a flower strange to me a-blooming in the snow;
I saw a star I could not name, in a sky I did not know,
a sky I did not know.

The flower shaped a single word, the star a single song;
"There are endless worlds beyond you now where you shall yet belong,
where you shall yet belong!"

So fear ye not for plague or war, and fear ye not the storm;
this holy time shall wrap you round and keep you from all harm,
and keep you from all harm.

Oh, blessings on your going forth, and on your coming home;
and blessed be where'er you bide, and everywhere you roam,
and everywhere you roam.


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[info]fibermom
2007-11-30 02:50 pm UTC (link)
I like that Blessing Song a lot. And the poem was particularly appealing to me today because I am slogging through lots of statistics on occupations, with particular reference at the moment to agricultural sector jobs vs. jobs in the sciences, so the shepherds' hypotheses brought me a special smile.
And hey, you're ahead of me with your Christmas preparations!

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Response to fibermom...
[info]ozarque
2007-11-30 04:15 pm UTC (link)
I am ahead of you only because I no longer have a houseful of teenagers...

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[info]janetmiles
2007-11-30 03:14 pm UTC (link)
Your holiday blessing is lovely -- all the more so because I work at a university and am surrounded by graduate students. Truly, the last line made me laugh out loud with glee and joyful recognition.

May I use the blessing, properly credited, on my holiday wishes this year?

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[info]ozarque
2007-11-30 04:06 pm UTC (link)
"May I use the blessing, properly credited, on my holiday wishes this year?"

Absolutely; I'd be pleased to have you do so. And thank you for your comment.

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[info]crossfire_
2007-11-30 03:26 pm UTC (link)
I am VERY excited that you are going to be updating TGAVSD. The original is such a huge help for me. You can count on me buying copies as soon as it comes off the presses.

This weekend we're doing our holiday prep too. We're doing wreaths as family gifts this year, which should be great fun.

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[info]ozarque
2007-11-30 04:13 pm UTC (link)
I'm pleased about it myself. The first edition has various quainteries: dialogues in which calculators are clearly very expensive items, for example, and recommended reading lists that don't have anything dated later than 1978 ... I'm looking forward to updating those, and to correcting the typoes that slipped through the first time and have never yet been set right, even after fifty-plus printings. I'll do my best to make the new edition worth my readers' time and money.

Thank you for your comment, and my best wishes for your weekend...

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[info]artfulruin
2007-11-30 03:29 pm UTC (link)
Dr. Haden-Elgin, you are truly a Great Woman. You have become the sort of person your characters aspire to be.

Thank you for your blessings.

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[info]ozarque
2007-11-30 04:14 pm UTC (link)
Many thanks for all the kind words; I'm grateful.

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[info]magdalene1
2007-11-30 05:18 pm UTC (link)
Beautiful poems! Enjoy the trimming and the decorating.

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[info]writerwench
2007-11-30 05:27 pm UTC (link)
I also need to scramble into the Christmas Corner of the loft tomorrow, and extract the white strings of 'icicle' and other lights to decorate the house front. Christmas cards? Hmmmm... yes, despite the exorbitant cost of postage, I SHALL send out my usual few dozen. Almost too late already for the overseas ones.

I also have an artificial tree - a very good old one - we did have a real one a couple of years ago, and it was so miserable and messy we decided not to have another. The tree will be set up and laden with 30 years' worth of decorations from the 21st December - midwinter solstice - but many other festive things will happen before then.

Your poem and carol alike are delightful. Thank you for re-posting them!

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[info]starcat_jewel
2007-11-30 05:51 pm UTC (link)
It's a good thing there's a cultural limit on the span of Christmas

There is? You'd never guess it if you lived in a larger city. I've been seeing Christmas displays at the stores since September (Caveat: there's some excuse for that in a crafts store, since handmade stuff takes a bit of lead time. But not in a department store!) and in other places since Halloween. Thanksgiving gets very short shrift these days, and by the time the Christmas season actually rolls around, a lot of people are already burned out on it.

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[info]crossfire_
2007-12-02 09:04 pm UTC (link)
Off-price retail (Marshall's, TJ-Maxx, Big Lots!, etc) will start getting Christmas inventory starting in July. It typically won't go out at that time, but that's when the buyers will start buying it, if it's a really good deal.

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[info]dark_phoenix54
2007-11-30 07:06 pm UTC (link)
there is cleaning to do -- I can't in good conscience trim a Christmas tree that's standing in a room full of dust and detritus

When there is a sparkley tree up, people are staring at it, not the dust and detritus.

That's my story, at least, and I'm sticking with it.

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[info]margvamp
2007-12-01 12:53 am UTC (link)
RE: dust and detritus -- detritus makes me depressed, so I always try to keep it to a minimum, but I regard the presence of a tree (artificial in our house, too) taking up half the room as a perfectly valid reason to ignore the dust.

I plan to start our tree a little early this year -- tomorrow, Dec. 1 -- because we are going away next weekend and having people over the following Friday evening, for whom we must have a tree up. Cultural limits? I agree that Christmas decorations shouldn't appear in stores (or houses, either) until after Thanksgiving; I like to start buying presents earlier, but I don't want to SEE that sort of thing ahead of the the season. For the end of the season, though, surely you don't subscribe to this modern, secular nonsense of cutting it short at the end of December or before? (It's sad to go into a store during Christmas week or a restaurant or hotel on New Year's Eve and find every trace of holiday adornments cleared away.) Christmas continues until Epiphany. One of the great blessings of my becoming an Episcopalian was discovering a good reason for NOT dismantling the tree on New Year's Day. What a depressing operation that always was! Now I can start un-decorating around Jan. 6 and finish over several days at a leisurely pace. Sometimes the Lladro Nativity figures are even allowed to stay out until Ash Wednesday.

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[info]kibbles
2007-12-02 03:11 am UTC (link)
Conuly recommended I read you, we were discussing flexible teaching techniques and she pointed me your way. Mind if I add?

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[info]ozarque
2007-12-02 01:02 pm UTC (link)
I don't mind at all; I'd be pleased.

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[info]filkferengi
2007-12-03 04:29 pm UTC (link)
My beloved spouse insists on a real tree, which he procures & decorates; it's his Thing. Our compromise is that he take it to be mulched, which doesn't happen until the first week in January, so we get to enjoy it an extra long time. [He usually puts it up during one of the two middle weekends in Dec.]

I do cards, wrapping, a newsletter [having none of your stamina, it's every other year, & that's hard enough to get to]. With the new dvd recorder, I'm now frantically making holiday dvds. I also find most of the parties & social activities, but try to keep them to a happy handful.

Your songs are lovely; thanks for sharing them! You should also post a link to your cds, though; I'm sure I'm not the only reader hereabouts thrilled to be listening to your music this Christmas season.

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[info]ozarque
2007-12-03 06:00 pm UTC (link)
Thank you for the kind words about my filk carols, and for mentioning the CDs. There's no way to link to those, however; people who want them have to resort to postal mail. "Christmas In Orbit" is $10.00 plus $4.50 shipping and handling [foreign postage extra], to OCLS, PO Box 1137, Huntsville, AR 72740-1137.

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Re-writing The Gentle Art of Verbal Self-Defense?
[info]infobits
2007-12-08 06:53 pm UTC (link)
I thought the book was terrific the first time and have referenced it and the others in the group often to many coworkers and friends who would find it helpful to pick up those skills.

I am interested in seeing what you add to it!

BJ of Columbus, Ohio

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Re: Re-writing The Gentle Art of Verbal Self-Defense ... response to infobits... ?
[info]ozarque
2007-12-08 09:41 pm UTC (link)
Many thanks for the kind words, and for having been kind to my book.

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